I’d say your problem is that you’re reading incel forums - the “in the west” part is kind of an obvious tell - and that you managed to hit yahtzee on literally everything I talked about in that particular column. Leaving aside the “Tell me you didn’t read my column without telling me you didn’t read my column” challenge aside, let’s break things down a bit, shall we? Y’know, HDIGMA, I see where you’re coming from, and I’d agree with you, except then we’d both be wrong. So Doc, you are spreading false hope to your customers Being a man (average, hell even above average) is a bad deal in the west, no woman will approach you unless you have money status or you are the clone of Henry Cavill. it’s kinda sad that as a man you are undesirable by default to the opposite gender, hetero women don’t face any difficulty in the dating world. women only like that type of men, no woman will have casual sex with a fat guy or a chubby guy for example, hell not even a skinny dude, as a dude YOU HAVE TO BE MUSCULAR to have success with women. how do you explain Tinder for example or Bumble, or any dating apps? men there don’t have any success unless they are fit, tall and handsome. First because you are talking about personality and all that but. I read your article “ Men, This Is Why You THINK You’re Ugly” and i can’t disagree more. Hell, this time I didn’t even bother cleaning up the grammar, spelling or punctuation mistakes. So we’re gonna dig into a letter that, under normal circumstances, would go straight into the trash bin. Not so much for the letter-writer themselves, but for everyone else, if only to talk about just how ugly some of this can get if you let it go unchecked in yourself. You can’t get a dead plant to grow no matter how much you water it, and you can’t reason someone out of a position that they didn’t use reason to get into in the first place.īut then again: sometimes it’s worth breaking down the “logic” - and I use the term very loosely - to dig into the underlying issues. Normally, I just delete them because, well… what’s the point. Other times it comes about because someone has found some “exposé” - usually dubiously sourced, even more dubiously interpreted and reported - on YouTube or something that threatens to blow the doors off online dating or something.Īnd then these emails show up in my inbox, regular as clockwork. Usually this is brought on because an incel forum somewhere rediscovers the old OKCupid “here’s how women rate men and men rate women” poll I mentioned in “This Is Why You Think You’re Ugly”. For me, it’s the seasonal “but WHY DON’T YOU ADMIT WOMEN ONLY DATE ONE KIND OF MAN” letter. Like the monarch butterflies traveling to Mexico and swallows returning to Capistrano, there’re some things you can always count on. But occasionally… well, occasionally I get a letter that requires a much deeper dive than most.Īnd then occasionally I get ones like today’s, which happen so regularly that you can actually measure the intervals between them and count down to when I’ll get the next. NerdLove and help you - and folks like you - solve your dating dilemmas. Normally on Fridays, I run questions for Ask Dr.
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